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Ask Women Breakups

Can you be friends with an ex after a serious relationship?

We have the same friends. Cutting him out feels dramatic. Staying close feels like limbo.

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How do I leave a relationship that is not abusive but is wrong?

Nobody cheated. We are kind. I am still sure this is not my life. I feel cruel.

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How do I know if I am being gaslit?

After every argument I apologize, even when I started with a fact. I leave conversations more confused than I entered.

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Ask Women Trust & Cheating

Should I stay after cheating if it happened once?

One night, full confession, lots of tears. Everyone has an opinion.

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How do I get over someone I still love?

The relationship ended. The wanting did not. I keep looking at their stories.

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Ask Women Red Flags

Is this love bombing or genuine interest?

He planned a trip after two dates and talks about forever. It feels amazing and slightly like a trap.

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Ask Both Communication

How do I talk without turning every issue into a fight?

We cannot discuss dishes without a trial. I shut down. She says I do not care.

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Ask Men Breakups

Do no-contact rules actually help after a breakup?

People say 30 days. I want to be mature and still be friends.

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Ask Both Red Flags

What are red flags in the first month of dating?

I keep missing things that later look obvious. What is actually worth walking from early?

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Ask Women Communication

How do I ask for more effort without sounding like I am begging?

I have asked nicely, then not nicely. He calls both nagging.

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Ask Women Breakups

Should I text my ex or leave it alone?

I have a 'harmless' reason. I also know I want a door to open.

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Ask Women Red Flags

Why do I stay in relationships that hurt me?

I can describe the cycle clearly and I still go back. I am tired of calling it love.